Enough of the insipid advice on how to meet guys, how to attract guys, and how to be interesting to a guy. I am going to tell you what you need to know and what you more than likely already know. You are already smart enough to figure out where to meet guys, you know the clothes and makeup combo that makes you feel hotter than you usually are, and if you are yourself, and the guy is the right guy, you will be interesting to that guy. Guaranteed.
 

Consider the usual advice. Go the places that guys go to. OK, you can flock to Nascar events, Monster Truck rallies, and motorcycle shows all you want, but if you are a book nerd at heart, go to your local library. If you are into salsa dancing, by all means, take a class, get a sexy little number, and go to a salsa club. But most importantly, stick to what you are interested in already. It's great to take up a new hobby, but keep it somewhat to your interests. Joining the chess club sounds great if you want to meet the next Bill Gates, but if you don't have a clue before your first meeting how to tell a pawn from the king, it just might not be your thing.

Second, if you feel attractive, you will be more attractive to the people you are trying to attract. You don't have to dress out of your comfort range- if you are conservative, you don't have to display the girls quite so prominently. Dressing according the informal dress code of your environment is definitely encouraged. For example, the sexy little number that got so much attention at the salsa club might not quite be right for the baseball game and the Mariner's jersey might not quite be right for the club, either. Some of my most uncomfortable moments come from being too under-dressed or over-dressed for a particular event. It's definitely a way to stand out from the crowd, but not necessarily in the best way.

And last, be yourself. I know you are supposed to listen to the guy's hobbies and interests and I am not telling you not to do that; however, keep in mind the fact that if the guy is boring the crap out of you on the first date and you have zero interest in any of his hobbies or anything he is saying, that will not change. The reverse holds true, too. If he pretends to have a great interest in everything you say, any future relationship you will have with this person will be based on lies. I'm not saying you should be rude, but definitely give your date an honest impression of yourself and your interests.