
I heard of a new dating-related site that allows a person who went on a date to personally contact the person they just dated to tell them what they did wrong on the date. I don’t need this because I already know what I did wrong on each and every date that I’ve been on. How do I know this?
I’m a woman. Women know these things. Women re-hash every single painful detail of bad dates with their friends to find out what went wrong. And if something goes wrong on a date, nine times out of ten, it’s the woman’s fault.
I already know if I’ve said a joke that my date didn’t appreciate. I already know if my date didn’t like my car enough to want to date me.
And I don’t need to tell the nice guys that I’ve dated what they’ve done wrong on the dates. I don’t need to tell them that they’re not funny enough for me because they probably already know.
I don’t need to tell them that I forgot to check how tall they were or that they were lying about their age on the dating site because, again, they probably already know.
And wasting my time on the jerks (two so far) that I’ve gone out on dates with is not really worth my time. There’s supposedly a template on the site on which the date reviewer can tell his/her date what they did exactly wrong.
I don’t know, but I’m guessing that the guy who told me I was looking good, and that he was fun, probably can guess that ditching me at a concert that I had free tickets to was probably not the best dating strategy. (Of course, I can’t be sure, because he contacted me later just to say hi.)
And, I”m guessing that the young phone tech expert knew that leaving me on the dance floor when he realized that I wasn’t going to sleep with him probably wasn’t the best dating strategy either. (He was under thirty, though, and we all know that anyone under thirty doesn’t have a fully developed brain yet, so it’s possible that he might not have realized it.)
What do you think? Do we need a dating site just to tell our rejects what they did wrong? Is it worth the time and effort to bitch and moan to the dates’ faces?

